| Sex between adults and children has been a societal 
            taboo so strong that it's considered one of our few unquestioned 
            moral principles. But arguments have emerged in academic journals, 
            books and online that at least some such sex should be acceptable, 
            especially when children consent to it.
 Those making the case 
            aren't just fringe groups, such as the North American Man-Boy Love 
            Association, but a handful of academics at mainstream 
            universities.
 
 Members of this school of thought stress that 
            they don't condone coercing children into sex, and that they are not 
            pro-pedophilia, as the term is commonly understood. But several 
            contend that minors are capable of agreeing to and even initiating 
            sex with adults.
 
 These academics seek to change the language, 
            moving away from "pedophilia," which often evokes a charged negative 
            response, particularly in light of the priest-pedophile cases 
            challenging the Roman Catholic Church. In its place would be more 
            neutral terms such as "intergenerational sex" or "adult-child 
            sex."
 
 With more research, some scholars say, it may be only a 
            matter of time before modern society accepts adult-child sex, just 
            as it has learned to accept premarital sex and homosexual 
            sex.
 
 "Children are the last bastion of the old sexual 
            morality," wrote one of the trailblazers for this view, Harris 
            Mirkin, an associate professor of political science at the 
            University of Missouri-Kansas City.
 
 Social conservatives 
            aware of efforts to legitimize adult-child sex have publicly 
            expressed horror. On his radio show broadcast to hundreds of 
            Christian stations, psychologist and author James Dobson said the 
            intent is to "make boys accessible" to men.
 
 Leading gay 
            rights groups also have denounced the effort.
 
 "Pedophilia is 
            something that's abhorrent, should be condemned in the strongest of 
            terms and should have nothing to do with gay civil rights issues," 
            said David Smith, spokesman for the Washington-based Human Rights 
            Campaign. Smith also spoke out against the North American Man-Boy 
            Love Association, which has been trying to link adult-child sex with 
            homosexual rights for 24 years.
 
 The American Psychiatric 
            Association's diagnostic manual removed homosexuality from its list 
            of mental disorders in 1973, but pedophilia remains there. The 
            manual describes pedophiles as having "recurrent, intense, sexually 
            arousing fantasies, sexual urges or behaviors involving sexual 
            activity with a prepubescent child or children (generally age 13 or 
            younger)."
 
 An APA statement separate from the manual says an 
            adult who engages in sexual activity with a child "is performing a 
            criminal and immoral act" that can "never" be considered socially 
            acceptable.
 
 Legal definitions vary from state to state and 
            often are under criminal codes dealing with indecent liberties with 
            a child, sodomy and rape. Pedophilia may not be mentioned by name. 
            Instead, the laws concern sexual contact with a child under a 
            certain age.
 
 The most coordinated opposition to change has 
            come from the Leadership Council for Mental Health, Justice & 
            the Media, an organization of mental health professionals 
            headquartered in Bala Cynwyd, Pa. The group describes its mission as 
            protecting children "through ethical applications of psychological 
            science." Since its inception in 1998, it has focused on debunking 
            what it considers pro-pedophilia studies.
 
 "What the 
            pedophiles are looking for is some group of professionals to 
            champion their cause," said Stephanie Dallam, a Leadership Council 
            researcher. "Then they'll come up with a derogatory term to deride 
            anyone who disagrees with them. Their claim will be to objective 
            science, even though their science is sloppy and 
            terrible."
 
 As an example, Dallam cites an organization 
            calling itself IPCE, a forum that discusses academic arguments for 
            adult-child sex.
 
 The group formed as the International 
            Pedophile and Child Emancipation group, then shortened its name to 
            the acronym alone, according to a newsletter posted on its Web site. 
            The site contains an extensive library of academic papers and 
            provides links to other pro-pedophilia Web sites, including one at 
            which people converse -- sometimes posting pictures -- about sexual 
            interactions with children.
 
 In an article to be published in 
            the spring issue of The Journal of Child Sexual Abuse, Dallam writes 
            that a major strategy in normalizing pedophilia is to limit the term 
            "child sexual abuse" to cases in which actual harm to children is 
            demonstrated, not just assumed.
 
 Mirkin, whose academic 
            specialty is the politics of sex, wrote in a 1999 article published 
            in The Journal of Homosexuality that society perceives youths as 
            seduced, abused victims and not "partners or initiators or willing 
            participants" in sex with adults, "even if they are 
            hustlers."
 
 In an interview, Mirkin said the outrage 
            surrounding the Roman Catholic Church's pedophilia scandal 
            illustrates how the public views acts of intergenerational contact 
            as "one big blur" of child abuse when it's likely "very, very mild 
            stuff."
 
 "We say if someone touches or molests or diddles or 
            whatever a kid it will ruin the rest of their life. I don't believe 
            it. I think kids are more likely to laugh at it more than anything 
            else -- unless the whole culture says this is the most horrible 
            thing that can happen to you."
 
 Mirkin is not alone in 
            questioning whether children are harmed by sexual contact with 
            adults. The March 2002 American Psychologist devotes its entire 
            issue to the ongoing fallout of a journal article that did just 
            that.
 
 The piece, in the July 1998 issue of Psychological 
            Bulletin, was written by Bruce Rind, then an assistant professor of 
            psychology at Temple University; Robert Bauserman, a lecturer then 
            with the department of psychology at the University of Michigan; and 
            Philip Tromovitch, then pursuing a doctorate at the University of 
            Pennsylvania.
 
 The trio reviewed 59 studies of college 
            students who, as children, had sexual interaction with significantly 
            older people or were coerced into sexual activity with someone of 
            their own age. They concluded that negative effects "were neither 
            pervasive nor typically intense, and that men reacted much less 
            negatively than women." It recommended that a child's "willing 
            encounter with positive reactions" be called "adult-child sex" 
            instead of "abuse."
 
 After Dr. Laura Schlessinger denounced 
            the article on her nationally broadcast radio program, the U.S. 
            House of Representatives unanimously passed a resolution rejecting 
            the study.
 
 Many academics came to the study's vigorous 
            defense, citing the need for academic freedom to pursue unpopular 
            topics. But other scholars joined the Leadership Council, Dallam's 
            group, in lambasting the study for what they considered sloppy 
            methodology and a refusal to look at numerous other studies 
            suggesting significant mental, physical and behavioral harm to 
            abused children. Rind, now a part-time instructor at Temple, did not 
            respond to requests for an interview.
 
 The controversy still 
            raged in May 1999, when the American Psychological Association, 
            which published the Rind article, passed a resolution saying that 
            "sexual relations between children and adults are abusive, 
            exploitive, reprehensible and properly punishable by 
            law."
 
 But adult-child sex remains a field of 
            study.
 
 While some, such as Mirkin, have argued that teen-age 
            children can consent to adult sex, there appears to be no clear 
            consensus among these scholars as to when a child should be 
            considered too young.
 
 Gilbert Herdt, director of human 
            sexuality studies at San Francisco State University, said 
            determining an age of consent "is very, very problematic." He 
            stressed that there must be a point where society says it's 
            unacceptable, and illegal, for an adult to have sex with a minor, 
            but he would not say where the line should be.
 
 "It's totally 
            different in my mind to think about consent with an 18-year-old than 
            a 10-year-old," said Herdt, who has written that sexual attraction 
            can begin as early as 8. "So then you say, `What about a 
            13-year-old, is that more like a 10-year-old or an 18-year-old?' 
            These are the types of questions that ultimately find their way into 
            legal cases because of the imprecision of these 
            categories."
 
 The academic debate has begun to find its way 
            into more popular culture.
 
 A soon-to-be-released book, 
            "Harmful to Minors: The Perils of Protecting Children From Sex," is 
            being advertised by its publisher, University of Minnesota Press, as 
            challenging widespread anxieties about pedophilia.
 
 In an 
            interview, the book's author, journalist Judith Levine, praised the 
            Rind study as evidence that "doesn't line up with the ideology that 
            it's always harmful for kids to have sexual relationships with 
            adults."
 
 She said the pedophilia among Roman Catholic priests 
            is complicated to analyze, because it's almost always secret, 
            considered forbidden and involves an authority figure.
 
 She 
            added, however, that, "yes, conceivably, absolutely" a boy's sexual 
            experience with a priest could be positive.
 
 "When I was a 
            minor, I had sex with an adult," she said. "He was one of my first 
            lovers. My heart was broken, but my heart was broken by a lot of 
            boys, too. I'd say on balance that it was a perfectly good 
            experience."
 
 (Mark O'Keefe can be contacted at mark.okeefe@newhouse.com)
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